silverscreenselect wrote:Although I know very few of the people on this Bored in person, my feeling is that most of the people who have been commenting on this thread are white and have never been called monkeys or been the butt of monkey jokes as a lot of black people have. So, these terms have a more deeply hurtful impact on blacks. Gillum's supporters picked up on that. Ana Navarro, who is Hispanic, picked up on that. So, I'm not sure any of us, liberal or conservative, can appreciate the impact some of those slurs have.
sss -
I think you misunderstood me. I think this is the case of a guy getting tongue-tied.
That does NOT mean, however, that I do not think deSantis is not capable of throwing around some pretty whack stuff. I am not sure that someone who willingly shares a platform with Steve Bannon and some cheesy alt-right types in a rally isn't. And, given the timing - right after he won - and his history (the alt-right rally guys), it's easy to think that it
was deliberate. I do not think that was the case.
And I agree with Ana Navarro much of the time and respect her outlook.
I grew up in a neighborhood that was changing in the 1960s. The first time I heard a black person called a monkey, I was 10. I was walking from dancing school with my new friend, Wynetta. She was 10, too. I've thought her often - especially the times when Michelle Obama was ridiculed as an ape. Because I've never forgotten the pain and hurt on her face when we were 10.
I find it somewhat disappointing, frankly, that you think that any of us (including yourself) are incapable of understanding the depth of someone else's pain. Or the power of hurtful words.